18 min read by Connie
There’s a reason couples who explore pleasure together report higher satisfaction, deeper emotional connection, and more open communication. Adding the right toys and products to your intimate life isn’t about replacing anything, it’s about amplifying what’s already there.
At Pure Romance by Connie, we’ve helped thousands of couples discover products that genuinely transform their experiences. In this guide, we’re breaking down the best options for 2026, from vibrators and lubricants to enhancement creams and bondage accessories, with clear advice on what works, why it works, and how to use it together.
Why Couples Use Sex Toys
Research consistently shows that couples who incorporate intimacy products into their relationship experience stronger orgasms, better communication, and higher overall satisfaction. It’s not just about pleasure, it’s about connection.
Step 1: Start with the Right Lubricant
Before anything else, lube. This is one of the most underrated products in any couple’s bedroom and the one that makes the biggest immediate difference.
The right lubricant reduces friction, increases sensation, and makes everything feel smoother and more enjoyable for both partners.
Best Lubricants for Couples
For most couples, a water based lubricant is the best starting point. It’s compatible with all toy materials, easy to clean, and safe for the body.
Pure Romance Just Like Me Original mimics the body’s natural moisture and is a reliable everyday option.
Feeling playful? Try flavored options like Watermelon, Strawberry Banana, or Sugar Glazed Donut for a fun twist during foreplay.
For a warming sensation, Sensations Caramel Macchiato activates with body heat to add a new layer of intimacy.
If you want something longer lasting, Pure Pleasure Silicone Lubricant is ideal for extended sessions. Avoid using it with silicone toys.
Tip: Apply lubricant to both partners for maximum comfort and sensation.
Step 2: Add an Enhancement Cream or Arousal Gel
Enhancement products take things further by increasing sensitivity and arousal. They are applied directly and work quickly.
For Her
Excitemint Warming Gel enhances sensitivity with a cooling and warming effect.
O Vanilla Frosting Cream is another popular option designed to intensify pleasure.
GPS Tingling Gel delivers focused stimulation exactly where needed.
For Him
Amp Enhancement Gel increases sensitivity during intimacy.
For oral play, Great Head Strawberry or Blueberry Lemonade adds flavor and sensation.
For Both
Bosom Buddy Tingling Balm can be used on erogenous zones to enhance foreplay.
Step 3: Choose Your Couples’ Toy
The right toy adds a new level of connection and shared experience. It is about enhancing intimacy, not replacing it.
Explore the full sex toys collection here.
Top Picks
Double Feature C Ring offers shared stimulation during intimacy.
Main Attraction Vibrator provides internal and external stimulation.
Butterfly Panty Vibrator allows remote controlled fun anywhere.
More options include:
Tip: Introduce toys as something you explore together. Keep it light and pressure free.
Step 4: Set the Mood with Bath and Body Products
Great experiences start before the bedroom. A shared routine can build anticipation and connection.
Bath and Shower Gel creates a sensual start.
Follow with Body Boost Cream or Fragrance Mist for a lasting effect.
Coochy Shave Cream keeps skin smooth and irritation free.
After use, clean toys with Toy Cleaner.
Step 5: Explore Bondage and New Experiences
For couples ready to explore more, light bondage can add excitement and variety.
Browse the bondage collection.
Frequent Flyer Swing allows new positions and experiences.
Sexy Spreader is a beginner friendly restraint option.
Strap On Harness expands possibilities for exploration.
Safety Tip: Always communicate clearly and use a safe word. Trust and comfort come first.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do we choose our first couples toy?
Start simple with something like a C Ring and build from there.
Can lubricant be used with all toys?
Water based lubricants work with all toys. Avoid silicone lubricant with silicone toys.
How do we clean toys?
Use a toy cleaner after each use.
The Bottom Line
The best products are the ones you both feel excited to try. Focus on connection, communication, and shared experience.
Start with a lubricant, add an enhancement product, explore a toy together, and build from there.
Browse the full Pure Romance shop to find what works best for you.
